XXXLove Review

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Upgrading to paid membership is low-cost. Great site features including webchat, members' videos section, mobile app, and group forums. Huge membership numbers. Slick new design.


Free initial membership limited to basics.
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Redesigned incarnation of high-quality adult dating site XXXMatch. Same reasonable prices, exceptional membership numbers, and gorgeous web design. Highly recommended.

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XXXLove Review


I was really interested in giving XXXLove a good month-long try because it is the new incarnation of the fantastic tried and true adult dating website XXXMatch. I had heard fantastic things about XXXMatch, so I knew that reviewing it as XXXLove would be just as good, since it wouldn’t really make sense for the site to lose its quality and good reputation when it reinvented itself.


As soon as I went to the homepage, I was immediately presented with one of the hottest splash screens I have seen on any of the sites I’ve reviewed so far. First of all, they’ve got porn superstar Jesse James featured as a virtual tour-guide, saying hello to you in a really sex lingerie outfit. As if that’s not hot enough, there are nude lesbians and half-naked couples on there too. Basically, they’ve succeeded in turning their homepage into a piece of eye candy you might want to bookmark for those lonely nights when you’re horny and all by yourself. However, I’m not sure you’ll have many of those kinds of nights once you start using XXXLove, although I don’t want to give away my final evaluation of the site too early.

So, once I managed to take my eyes off the naked models and couples long enough to start my free tour and sign up for my free initial membership, virtual Jesse James guided me through step by step. As though having her in her sexy lingerie wasn’t hot enough, with each completed step of my free membership process, she took off more and more clothing. Even if you don’t end up going further than completing the whole free membership and seeing that gorgeous vixen nude and shaking her money maker at you, it’s worth the time and effort. Trust me. That’s Jesse on the far left (although as you can see, the woman in the middle ain’t no slouch herself!)


Once I finished off…my free membership I was able to start looking around the site. Although the free membership limits you to only a few features, it does allow you to do the most important thing, which is begin looking through the profiles of your local members and start emailing them to say hello. I started immediately sending out emails to all the gorgeous local honeys that were looking for some no strings attached fun that first night. Almost immediately I started seeing my inbox fill up with responses, but to read them, I needed to upgrade my membership to one of two paid membership options XXXLove offers. Here’s the pricing breakdown:

3 Days1 Month3 Months1Year
Silver Membership$1.95$29.95/Month$19.98/Month
Gold Membership$1.95$34.95/Month$23.32/Month$12.50/Month

Since I wanted to do a thorough job reviewing the site, and it was only five bucks more to get it, I went with the the gold month membership. With the gold membership I got access to all the site’s features which include:

  • Unlimited webchatting
  • Unlimited emails – sending and receiving
  • Unlimited insta-chatting
  • XXXLove’s mobile app
  • Unlimited access to Members Videos Section
  • Unlimited access to XXX movie section
  • Unlimited access to group forums
  • Unlimited access to discussion boards
  • 100 Day Get Lucky or Your Money Back Guarantee

The silver membership gets you the 100 day guarantee, emails, and insta-messaging. All you really need if you’re strapped for cash and want to bare-bones it, but I recommend chipping in the couple extra bucks for the gold membership. First of all, because the members’ videos section is something you don’t want to miss. It’s basically a section of the site where members like you and I post sexy videos of themselves. Sometimes they’re solo, and sometimes they’re with other people. Regardless, it’s a great way to see and evaluate if the person is the type you’re looking for in your sex dating adventures.

Secondly, because the group forums and discussion boards are great places to read and meet people. If you’re into threesomes with couples, it’s worth your time to join those discussion boards. You can meet like-minded couples and start your contact through there, rather than sifting through profiles. Plus, if you read enough from someone, you can really get the sense of whether they’re on the same page as you are, in terms of kinkiness or proclivities. Sex is always great, but when you’re with someone who wants to push the same boundaries as you are, it can be life-changing.



To that end, I decided to try to use the forums and discussion groups to try to find a couple ladies that would be interested in participating in a sexual bucket list scenario I’ve been wanting to try since I saw the movie “Ilsa She-Wolf of the SS”. Basically there’s a dominatrix and her sexy assistant that sexually torture a helpless prisoner in their dungeon. While I subtly tried to hook that date up (I knew it was a long shot), I sent out my normal emails to horny local women looking for more straight-up sexual fun. Here are the numbers I put out there, and the results:

79 emails sent to women

49 responses

27 unsolicited emails from women

22 sex dates scheduled

17 sex dates completed

5 dates either cancelled or no-show

As you can see, I averaged about 25 emails and 4 sex dates per week, which is fantastic in terms of effort and return on investment. However, the best part was that one night in the forums I found two women heavily into Dominatrix play, and after a few back-and-forths, we decided to try to hook up my fantasy scenario. God bless the forums.

I rented a dungeon sex room in town and had the ladies meet me there in their leather bondage outfits. I won’t go into too many details, but suffice to say, that’s one bucket-list item I can cross off. If you’re looking to delve into sexual fantasy or depravity, I highly recommend XXXLove, especially the forums.

All in all, this site delivered top quality results from start to finish. I give it an enthusiastic A!

XXXLove Review, 4.5 out of 5 based on 2 ratings

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