Sexual Skills

Posted March 10, 2012 by

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Sexual experience used to be frowned upon, especially if it was a woman getting some experience. The problem is that sexual experience is the one thing that makes us all better lovers. Like anything else, being really good at sex requires practice. Practice makes perfect – and when it’s sex, at least the practice is really fun.

Sex skills

Every new partner we have teaches us something, whether we realize it or not. There is some new skill that we experience or some move that they have that’s new to us or maybe it’s just honing our skills on how to read our partner’s reaction to things. No matter what it is, it’s good for us and for our experience levels. When we do finally settle down, we’ll know what kind of lover we want and we’ll have confidence in how good a lover we are in return. Confidence is sexy. A woman who knows she’s got mad skills in bed will have men flocking to her looking for sex, and it will be more about her confidence, her demeanor and how she carries herself than anything else. It won’t be necessary for her to announce that she’s got mad skills. Her confidence and cockiness will be plenty and will show through to the world and attract people in droves. They won’t even know why, they’ll just feel drawn to her.

Discovering our own sexuality and power in sex is not something that’s encouraged in the US. It should be, and it should be taught before people start dating, but it’s not. When people feel free to discover for themselves who they are, what they like, what they don’t like and what really turns them on, they usually feel free in every possible way. The sense of freedom permeates into other parts of their lives. Their confidence shows through in all that they do. They carry themselves differently. They react to others differently. They glow from within. It’s unmistakeable.

About the Author

Paul Abbey
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Paul Abbey has a Masters Degree in Sexual Health from the University of Sydney in Australia. He has authored several self-help novels and has been a guest speaker in four Continents and many different cities from around the world. At, Abbey is the leading authority in human sexuality and he strives to help shape the dating community into a more relevant and understanding place for both men and women.